Anomalous for life partner
yocahuna
Washington, District of Columbia | Hombre Buscando Hombre
Información Básica
Puedo hablar
Inglés, Otros
Me describiría a mi mismo como
Two key themes of my life are Anomaly and Synthesis. Since i was born of Chinese parents in Jamaica and grew up there, i'm culturally black which did not sit well with my family, and gay, which is anathema to the majority of my fellow Jamaicans, resulting in my being granted asylum in the US. I've known 30 gay men who've been killed in Jamaica, so my fear of persecution is a tad more than just academic. Here in the US, i don't fit into the Asian community, the Jamaicans are wary of anyone who would flee their idealized paradise, and African Americans don’t quite know what to make of me. Hence, i don't fit anywhere, have become a man without a country, the Eternal Outsider. That perspective, however, has its advantages as my varied identities, ethnicities and experience affords me a wider repertoire of possibilities. I'm able also to blend and meld diverse elements into new combinations. I'm accomplished in many fields, having been blessed with numerous talents, which paradoxically can present a challenge of having too many choices. Being intelligently lazy and laid-back, i do what i can when i can and go with the flow. I'm almost completely self-sufficient, granted my wants and lifestyle are simple, needing only the intimate companionship of a partner.
Signo
Cancer
Apariencia y Situación
Mi tipo de cuerpo es
Delgado
Mi altura es
5' 7 (1.7 m)
Mis ojos son
Marrones
Mi raza es
Asiático , Otros
Mi situación marital es
Soltero
Tengo hijos
No
Quiero tener hijos
No estoy seguro
Piercings, tatuajes…
Ni me lo pensaría
Mi pelo es
Sal y Pimienta
Tengo uno o más de estos
Sin Mascotas
Me iría a vivir a otro lugar
Si
Estatus
Mi nivel de estudios / educación es
Diploma Unversidad
Mi situación laboral actual es
Auto Empleo
Mi especialidad es
Otros
Mi trabajo es como
Life counselor, publisher, communitarian
Mi salario anual es de
Menos de $14,999USD
Vivo en
Solo/a
En casa
Todo tranquilo
Soy Fumador
No
Soy Bebedor
No
Personalidad
En el instituto, era
Del Tipo Callado
Socialmente, me describiría como
Reservados, Observador, Quien siempre enciende el fuego
Mis aficiones e intereses son
Hacer ejercicio, Artes y Manualidades, Aprender, Música, Internet, Religión / Espiritualidad, Jardineria, Voluntariado
Mi idea de un rato estupendo es
Salir con amigos, Quedarme en casa, Relajarse, Leer un Libro, Ir a un Museo
Mi primera cita ideal sería
Getting to know each other over coffee
Siempre he querido probar
Being part of a real couple - my longest relationship was 2 1/2 years and it was an unequal partnership.
Mis amigos me describen como
Oscuro
Puntos de Vista
Mi religión es
Agnóstico
Voy a la iglesia
Nunca
Mi meta en la vida
George Bernard Shaw said it best:
This is the true joy in life, the being used up for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being a force of nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the community, and as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it whatever I can. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake.
This is the true joy in life, the being used up for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being a force of nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of ailments and grievances, complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the community, and as long as I live, it is my privilege to do for it whatever I can. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake.
Mi sentido del humor es
Seco / Sarcástico, Oscuro
Gustos
En la TV, siempre veo
Noticias, Documentales, No me gusta la TV
Si voy al cine, siempre me gusta ver una
Drama , Documentales, No me gustan las películas
Cuando escucho música, lo que más me gusta es
Rock, Clásica, Jazz, Latino, Nueva Era / New Age, Ambiente, Baile, Soul, Reggae
Cuando leo libros, lo que más me gusta es
Antiguedades, Antologías, Autobiografías, Biografías, Salud, Filosofía, Referencia, Religiosos, Sátira, Ciencia
Mi idea de diversión es
Being with someone i'm into
Estoy buscando a
¿Qué te resulta atractivo?
Inteligencia, Buena Imagen, Grandes Habilidades, Empatía, Audacia, Espontaneidad, Poder, Ingenio, Detallista
¿Qué estás buscando?
To save us all time, i'm attracted to youthful, emotionally mature, athletic guys, any race or age who appreciate companionship and intimacy not involving anal sex. Shared values, vision and activism would help to provide a foundation for a relationship.
¿Qué tipo de relación estás buscando?
Cita, Íntimos, Comprometido